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Episode 5: How to Find Your Passion in Life (Even if You Don’t Feel Passionate About Anything)

In this episode of the Life Sucks, Now What?!? podcast, Dr. Natalie addresses the issue of not feeling passionate about anything and not knowing where to begin finding fulfillment in life. She explores the idea that not everyone has a burning passion and that it’s okay to have likes and dislikes without a clear purpose. Dr. Natalie suggests a three-step process to exploring what your passion might be.

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Episode 4: Finding Motivation When Feeling Unmotivated

This episode of Life Sucks, Now What?!? explores strategies to get motivated and overcome demoralization, particularly in the context of job loss. The discussion focuses on the role of neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin in motivation and offers biohacks to boost these chemicals and get you started on the path to motivation again. The importance of engaging in creative activities aligned with one’s purpose and seeking social support is emphasized. It is also acknowledged that it is okay to grieve and acknowledge uncomfortable emotions while working towards moving forward.

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Episode 3: Are Some People Wired to Be Negative?

In this episode, Dr. Natalie explores the concept of negative thinking and its impact on our lives. She discusses the neurobiology behind negative thinking and how it can become a pattern that affects our perception of reality. Dr. Natalie also explains the role of cognitive bias in reinforcing negative thinking and the addictive nature of having a negative mindset. That’s right, some of us literally become addicted to thinking this way. She offers practical strategies, such as mindfulness, meditation, movement, and other pattern interruptions, in an effort to break the cycle of negative thinking and build resilience. By understanding the power of belief and training the brain, we can overcome negative thinking and create a mindset that will serve us better than staying trapped in our own pessimism.

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Episode 2: Am I Attracting Negative People – Part 2

In this podcast episode, Dr. Natalie addresses the question of why some people feel stuck in relationships that do not serve them. She explains that there can be a dysregulation in the nervous system that keeps individuals trapped in these relationships. She emphasizes that it is not always a result of anxious or avoidant attachment or low self-worth.

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Episode 1: Do I Attract Negative People In My Life?

In this debut episode, Dr. Natalie dives deep into the question: “Do I attract negative people?” Join her as she unpacks the psychological dynamics behind attracting negativity into our lives. With insightful analysis and practical wisdom, Dr. Natalie offers strategies for understanding and navigating these patterns.

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Consider Getting a Personal Trainer…for Your Mind!

I have been counseling others and receiving counseling off and on for decades, so I forget sometimes that the idea of counseling is a really foreign one for many.  On top of that, mental health issues have all kinds of stigma attached to them.  The sad thing about this, it really pushes people away from counseling when even some brief intervention can be extremely helpful at different times in our lives.  So, in the theme of focusing on our goals for 2024, I thought I’d try to demystify counseling a bit and explain the real value to seeking this out in our lives.

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Our Bodies Are Self-Care GOLD

Our bodies can be the part of us that we are most hard on and which we most struggle to care for appropriately. Maybe you were bullied as a child for what you looked like. Or, maybe you were hard on yourself about your body, because you felt you didn’t muster up to the social programming of what a good body looks like. What is very unfortunate about this common occurrence, is that we then become divorced from one of our greatest assets in self-care…our bodies.