Episode 8: “Are they really like that person or am I just thinking they’re like that person?”
In this episode of Life Sucks, Now What?!, Dr. Natalie discusses the concept of having big emotional reactions to people or situations that remind us of past experiences. She explains that our body and mind are wired to recognize patterns and make quick decisions based on past experiences. However, this can lead to overreactions and misunderstandings in current situations.
Dr. Natalie suggests using mindfulness and self-awareness to recognize when we are falling into old patterns and to interrupt those patterns. She emphasizes the importance of choosing new ways of responding and experimenting with different approaches.
Keywords: emotional reactions, past experiences, patterns, mindfulness, self-awareness, interrupting patterns, choosing new responses
Takeaways:
- Our body and mind are wired to recognize patterns and make quick decisions based on past experiences.
- Having big emotional reactions to people or situations that remind us of past experiences is a natural response.
- Mindfulness and self-awareness can help us recognize when we are falling into old patterns.
- Interrupting old patterns and choosing new ways of responding can lead to healthier and more effective interactions.
DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with NatalieMarrCounseling.com and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums.
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:
https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
CALL 988
Crisis Text Line:
https://www.crisistextline.org/
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